How can I improve myself within a month?

 How can I improve myself within a month?

 21 ideas - by Ajay Suryakant Maske Patil sir

    1. Detoxify your speech. Reduce the use of cuss words. Be polite.

    2. Read everyday. Doesn’t matter what. Choose whatever interests you.

    3. Promise yourself that you will never talk rudely to your parents. They never deserve it.

    4. Observe people around you. Imbibe their virtues.

    5. Spend some time with nature everyday. 

    6. Feed the stray animals. Yes, it feels good to feed the hungry.

    7. No ego. No ego. No ego. Just learn, learn and learn.

    8. Do not hesitate to clarify a doubt. “He who asks a question remains fool for 5 minutes. He who does not ask remains a fool forever”.

    9. Whatever you do, do it with full involvement. That’s meditation.

    10. Keep distance from people who give you negative vibes but never hold grudges.

    11. Stop comparing yourself with others. If you won’t stop, you will never know your own potential.

    12. “The biggest failure in life is the failure to try”. Always remember this.

    13. “I cried as I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no feet”. Never complain.

    14. Plan your day. It will take a few minutes but will save your days.

    15. Everyday, for a few minutes, sit in silence. I mean sit with yourself. Just yourself. Magic will flow.

    16. In a healthy body resides a healthy mind. Do not litter it with junk.

    17. For one month, eat home cooked meals.

    18. Keep your body hydrated at all times. Practice drinking 8–10 glasses of water.

    19. Make a habit to eat at least one serving of raw vegetable salad on a daily basis.

    20. Take care of your health. “He who has health has hope and he who has hope has everything”.

    21. Life is short. Life is simple. 

Do not complicate it. Don’t forget to smile.😇

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Dear girls...................

 

Dear girls...................

Never remove ur clothes to prove ur love

Going to date to is okay but before marriage never go to bed.

Get a boy who asks about ur period pain not for nudes.

Get  boy a who can take u to his home not to the hotel. 

Get a boy can buy safety pads for u not cdm

Get a boy who choosed ur souls, ur heart not the body.

Respect one of the greatest expressions of love.

A real man never hurts a woman.

She is a not just housewife who cook ur  meals and washes ur clothes.

She is a homemaker who hold together the family and makes sure that everything is as perfect as it can be once you get home.

Respect for women is one of the greatest gift a man can show. 

Be a real man and respect women...

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What is the difference between motion and action?

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                          The difference between motion and action always exists and the difference sounds good. These two words sounds similar, but they are not the same. When you’re in motion, you’re planning and strategizing and learning. Those are all good things, but they don’t produce a result. Action, on the other hand, is the type of behavior that will deliver an outcome. If I outline twenty ideas for articles I want to write, that’s motion. If I actually sit down and write an article, that’s action. If I search for a better diet plan and read a few books on the topic, that’s motion. If I actually eat a healthy meal, that’s action.

                         If motion doesn’t lead to results, why do we do it? Sometimes we do it because we actually need to plan or learn more. But more often than not, we do it because motion allows us to feel like we’re making progress without running the risk of failure. Most of us are experts at avoiding criticism. It doesn’t feel good to fail or to be judged publicly, so we tend to avoid situations where that might happen. And that’s the biggest reason why you slip into motion rather than taking action: you want to delay failure.

                          It’s easy to be in motion and convince yourself that you’re still making progress. You think, “I’ve got conversations going with four potential clients right now. This is good. We’re moving in the right direction.” Or, “I brainstormed some ideas for that book I want to write. This is coming together.”

  Motion makes you feel like you’re getting things done. But really, you’re just preparing to get something done. When preparation becomes a form of procrastination, you need to change something. You don’t want to merely be planning. You want to be practicing. If you want to master a habit, the key  is to start with repetition, not perfection. You don’t need to map out every feature of a new habit. You just need to practice it.

So Walk Slowly but NOT BACKWARD. STAY SAFE AND STAY HEALTHY WITH A QUOTE BY VOLTAIRE

**The best is the enemy of the good**

Enjoy reading always and all the ways.

Ajay Maske Patil

The best is yet to come

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 1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short not to enjoy it.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.

5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

9. Save for things that matter.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words, ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose Life.

28. Forgive but don’t forget.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give Time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. Yield.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you think you need.

42. The best is yet to come…

Ajay Maske Patil

The Story Of Ganesha’s

 

Lord Ganesha is called the god of knowledge and wisdom and there is a spectacular story that illustrates why it is so.

Ganesha had a younger brother called as Karthikeya. Both would get along well but, just like all other siblings, they would have moments of arguments and fights. On one such day, Ganesha and Karthikeya both ended up finding a unique fruit in the forest and grabbed it together. They refused to share it with each other and started claiming the fruit for themselves.

When they reached Mount Kailash and presented this predicament to Shiva and Parvati, Shiva made a proposition. He recognized the fruit and said that this fruit is known to grant immortality and extensive knowledge when eaten by the rightful bearer of it. To choose who gets it, Shiva proposed a challenge. He asked Ganesha and Karthikeya to circumvent their world 3 times. Whoever would do so first and return to Mount Kailash, would be the rightful owner of the fruit.

Karthikeya immediately hopped onto his pet peacock and flew speedily to complete three revolutions across the Earth. Ganesha was a little stocky compared to Karthikeya and his pet was a rat who couldn’t fly. Having listened to Shiva’s proposal properly, Ganesha started walking around Shiva and Parvati and completed three circles around them. When asked by Shiva, Ganesha replied that Shiva had asked them to circumvent their world. And for Ganesha, his parents were more than the world. They were the entire universe.for more stories join 

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Shiva was touched and impressed by Ganesha’s wisdom and saw him as the rightful owner of the fruit

Love and Regret of Lifetime

She was a simple homely girl from a small town who had many dreams. He was a simple guy with a successful career.  Fate brought them together, she fell in love and he accepted his feelings for her too.  She looked upon him as her everything. He understood her more than anyone.  He wanted to provide everything that was good for her.  She wanted to do everything that can make him happy.

He wanted her to grow out of shadows of in-home life and become a self-dependent.  He wanted her to learn how to face the harsh reality of society and make a career, so if anything happens to him in future, she can survive.   He was constantly guiding her and often even scolded her when she made mistakes.  He was molding her for her own good.  She was getting a success and many guys were showing interest in her.  Oh did I mention she was a beautiful too!  She had a smile that can fill anyone’s, heart.

As time passed, she became more confident and her career was reaching its peak. But he as always stood by her, always guiding her and continue to push her for more progress.  However, she was no longer liking him giving her advice.  She felt that she is more than capable of deciding what to do.  He too was always working and differences started to grow.  She never understood why he was always pushing her for more and more.  But she started quarreling with him.  It grew.  She left him saying, “I am not the one to listen to you always, I can decide what’s best for me now, I am successful, There are many guys who will be more than happy to accept me as I am, If you do not like it, go to hell.”For more stories join englishpitara.

He felt hurt.  He who loved her since she was a simple homely girl, failed to understand why would she think in such a negative manner about him.  He who always wanted her to be self-dependent, who felt proud each time she reached the new height of success, how can she say such things.  He left her saying,

“Perhaps the ego of your success has grown in your mind that you have failed to feel my feelings for you in your heart.  I loved you when you were a simple girl without a career or a success in your life.  My intention was always to encourage you, not to make you feel anything less.  Perhaps, failure is mine that after all the time we spent together, I couldn’t make you understand what you are for me and what I wished for you.  I wished only best for you, I wished you achieve more success than me.  I wished you do not make the same mistakes which I made.  That was the only reason I always guided you and scolded you.  May you find everything you ever wished for.”

He knew that both are made for each other, no one can make them happy as much as they can make each other. But, he had no words left to say as he was truly heartbroken. She later realized it but, it was too late and had to end up living with the regret of a lifetime.

Ajay Suryakant Maske Patil

CRITICISM and FEEDBACK.

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 "Something I recently observed on social media:

Pointing out people's flaws here and there in a judgmental way.

People are allowed to criticize no questioning that. "it's a free world"And the others should aknowledge that, even when it is not constructive or helpful, and kindly express gratitude. 

BUT, criticism especially when it is fueled by ego, blame, doing things according to the RIGHT WAY, or hate, is toxic.

and here I would like to point out the difference between CRITICISM and FEEDBACK.

*Criticism focuses on what's wrong while feedback focuses on how to improve.

* Criticism devalues. For example: guess you’re just not smart enough to do this. While feedback encourages. For example:I know you have a lot on your plate, but I’m pretty sure we can do this together.

I think advice or rather feedback in so many ways would be better. When it makes the person recognizes an unresolved issue, expand their perspective and personal growth and be a challenge for them to become better versions of themselves.

But throwing negative energy on a category of people will only cause hurt and zero change.

*What you put out there is what you get back*

We should try our best to encourage positive change, instead of undermining confidence. We should try to uplift each other instead of belittling each other.

We should be more considerate. We should be KIND."

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The 30 Second Habit That Can Have a Big Impact On Your Life

The 30 Second Habit That Can Have a Big Impact On Your Life

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There are no quick fixes. I know this as a social science junkie, who’s read endless books and blogs on the subject, and tried out much of the advice — mostly to no avail. So I do not entitle this post lightly.

If you only do one thing, do this

Immediately after every lecture, meeting, or any significant experience, take 30 seconds — no more, no less — to write down the most important points. If you always do just this, and even if you only do this, with no other revision, you will be okay.

1.  It’s not note taking: Don’t think, just because you write down everything in a meeting, that you’re excused from the 30 second summation. Though brief, this exercise is entirely different from taking notes. It’s an act of interpretation, prioritisation and decision-making.

2.  It’s hard work: Deciding what’s most important is exhausting. It’s amazing how easy it is to tell yourself you’ve captured everything that matters, to find excuses to avoid this brief mental sprint — a kind of 100 metres for your brain.

3.  Detail is a trap: But precisely because we so often, ostensibly, capture everything — and thus avoid the hard work of deciding what something counts — that everything is worth less. So much of excellence is, of course, the art of elimination. And the 30 second review stops you using quantity as an excuse.

4.  You must act quickly: If you wait a few hours, you may recall the facts, but you lose the nuance. And this makes all the difference in deciding what matters. Whether it’s the tone in someone’s voice, or the way one seemingly simple suggestions sparks so many others, or the shadow of an idea in your mind triggered by a passing comment.

5.  You learn to listen better, and ask better questions: Once you get into the habit of the 30 second review, it starts to change the way you pay attention, whether listening to a talk or participating in a discussion. It’s like learning to detect a simple melody amidst a cacophony of sound. And as you listen with more focus, and ask better questions which prompt actionable answers, so your 30 second review becomes more useful.

6.  You’re able to help others more: Much of what makes the 30 second cut are observations about what matters to other people. Even if the purpose is to help better manage different interests in future conversations, it also helps you understand other’s needs, and so solve their problems. This does not surprise me: in months of interviewing people who make generous connections, I’ve been struck by how many have their own unconscious version of the 30 second review: focused on the question of how best they can help.

7.  It gets easier and more valuable: Each time you practice, it gets a little easier, a little more helpful and little more fun.

Enjoy Reading. Always and all the ways. Stay safe and stay healthy. Have a great day ahead. 

Ajay Maske Patil

Risk in life is important

Risk in life is important

 #Motivational# #Story by Prof.M Ajay

 According to an old legend, a king went to visit his neighboring kingdom here.  The neighboring king hosted the guest king very well.  After staying there for a few days when the king returned to his kingdom, the neighboring king gifted him two beautiful pigeons.

 The king took the two pigeons to his palace.  There a servant was appointed to look after the pigeons.  The servant would arrange food and water for the pigeons in the morning.  A few days later, when the king arrived to know the condition of those pigeons.

 The servant said that one pigeon flies to a very high height, but the other one is sitting on a branch of the tree.  The king was very sad to know why the other pigeon is not flying.

 The king immediately summoned his ministers, but no one could understand what had happened to the other pigeon.  Then someone advised the king that the birds should be called.  The ministers immediately called a poor farmer.

 The farmer was familiar with birds, saw the area around the pigeon and cut the branch of the tree on which he sat.

 After this, the second pigeon also started flying high in the sky.  The farmer told the king that this pigeon was trapped in the fascination of this branch, afraid of taking the risk of flying, when this branch was cut, it had no other option but to fly.

 Due to this, he has started flying to high altitude.  The king was pleased to see this and honored the farmer with gold coins.

 *Lesson from story*

Those who are afraid to take risks, do not want to give up their comfort zone, they cannot fly to the height i.e. do not achieve their Dreams or Targets.  

If you also want to do something big, then you have to take risk.

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To understand life better

A rich man looked through his window and saw a poor man picking something from his dustbin ... 

He said, Thank GOD I'm not poor;

The poor man looked around and saw a naked man misbehaving on the street ... He said, 

Thank GOD I'm not mad;

The mad man looked ahead and saw an ambulance carrying a patient ... He said, 

Thank GOD am not sick;

Then a sick person in hospital saw a trolley taking a dead body to the mortuary ... He said,

Thank GOD I'm not dead;

Only a dead person cannot thank God;

Why don't you thank GOD today for all your blessings and for the gift of life ... 

for another beautiful day;

What is LIFE ?

To understand life better, you have to go to 3 locations:

1. Hospital

2. Prison*

3. Cemetery

At the Hospital, you will understand that nothing is more beautiful than HEALTH.

 In the Prison, you'll see that FREEDOM is the most precious thing

 At the Cemetery, you will realize that life is worth nothing. The ground that we walk today will be our roof tomorrow. 

The Truth :  We all come with Nothing and we will go with Nothing ... Let us, therefore, remain humble and be thankful & grateful to God at all times for everything.

-Mr. Ajay Maske

First understand people

​​The Young Girl and the Hen

 

A Young Girl lived on a farm with her parents. She loved to play with the farm animals.

One day, while she was playing with the Hens and their Chicks, a Hen pecked her finger and bit it.

“Oh, Papa!” the Young Girl ran to her father, crying and holding out her hand.

The Young Girl’s father asked her, “My bonny little girl! What happened?”

The Young Girl said, “Oh Papa! The Hen hurt me! I am so kind to them, yet one of them bites my fingers every time I go to play with them. They are not nice!”

The Young Girl’s father took her small hand in his own large one. “The poor Hens think you have come to harm them or their little children. So they are scared of you and bite in fear. You should he careful. First play with them from a distance.

When you become friends, then they will never bite you” .

Her father continued, “My dear girl. You should try to understand and respect each creature. Even if they are not like us, they also have feelings and fears!”

First understand people or animals and then get close to them.

Prof.Ajay Maske Patil.

The Power Of Unconditional Love

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प्रेम की ऊर्जा, 

इतनी शक्तिशाली है की इसका प्रयोग कर आप बड़े से बड़े रोग को दूर करने में कर सकते हैं।

यदि आपके शरीर में कोई रोग है,इसका अर्थ है आपके उस अंग को प्रेम की जरूरत है।

 यदि आपके किडनी में कोई रोग है, इसका अर्थ है,आपने अपनी किडनी को प्रेम नही किया..... उसे नुकसान पहुँचाया....

रोग का कारण डॉक्टर कुछ भी बताए लेकिन आध्यात्म कहता है कि रोग तब आता है जब "प्रेम और धन्यबाद का भाव" कम हो जाए।

यदि आपको रोग हमेशा के लिए ख़तम करना है तो,

"Just Give Unconditional Love."

उस अंग को फील करे उसे प्रेम भेजे......फील करे वो पवित्र है।

ऐसा अनुभव करे जैसे वो ठीक हो चुका, खुश रहे।

हमारी सेल्स (कोशिका) उस प्रेम की ऊर्जा को अपने अन्दर भर लेगी....आपकी भावना सच हो जाएगी।

वो अंग, वो आतं, लंग्स, दिल, दिमाग वो सब हील होगा।

 

"प्रेम एक पॉजिटिव" ऊर्जा है जो आपकी हीलिंग पॉवर बढाती है।

आप देखेगे, जो रोग प्रेम के आभाव से उत्तपन्न हुआ अब गायब हो चुका है, जैसे वो कभी था ही नही।

'प्रेम की वो ऊर्जा मुझमे, एक नया जीवन भर गई'

हर अंग को देखो उसे प्यार दो, क्योकि जब तुम उसे फील करते हो तब, आपकी सारी ऊर्जा उसी अंग की ओर बहने लगती हैं।

ये प्रेम है जो तुम्हे जीवित रखता है।

अगर आप अपने आप से प्रेम नही करोगे तब आप रोग को जन्म

देते हो, आप अकाल मृत्यु को बुलावा देते हो।

 

तो सोच क्या रहे हो ?

प्रेम बाँटो, क्योकि प्रेम बाँटने से बढता है।

❤ .......#Ajay Maske Patil

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शेवटी अंतर तेव्हढच राहीलं

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शेवटी_अंतर_तेव्हढच_राहीलं !

लहानपणी आई डबा करून दयायची पण ... लोकांना हॉटेल मध्ये खाताना बघितले की खूप वाटायचं..आपण ही खावं. पण आई म्हणायची, ती श्रीमंत माणसं म्हणून पैसे खर्च करून खाऊ शकतात आपण नाहीं.

मोठा झाल्यावर हॉटेलचं खायला लागलो , तर आरोग्याच्या काळजीनं लोकं घरचा डबा खाताना दिसू लागली.

 

शेवटी_अंतर_तेव्हढच_राहीलं !!

लहानपणी गरिबीमुळे मी सुती कपडे घालायचो, तेव्हा लोक टेरिकॉट, पॉलीस्टरचे कपडे घालायचे, खूप वाटायचं आपणही असे घालावे.

मोठेपणी टेरिकॉट घालायला लागलो तर  लोकं सुती वापरायला लागले...सुती कपडे महाग झाले.

शेवटी_अंतर_तेव्हढच_राहीलं !!

लहानपणी खेळताना पडलो तर गुडघ्यावर पँट फाटायची, आई छानपैकी शिवून दयायची .. शिवलेलं कोणाला दिसू नये म्हणून धडपड असायची.

 मोठेपणी लोकांना फाटलेल्या जिन्स दामदुपटीने घेताना बघितले.

शेवटी अंतर तेव्हडच राहीलं,,, !!

 लहान होतो तेव्हा दुध नसल्यानं घरी गुळाचा चहा मिळायचा ... अन् लोकांना साखरेचा पितांना बघायचो .. वाटायचं आपणही प्यावा पण ?

 आता मी साखरेचा प्यायला लागलो तर लोकं गुळाचा ब्लॅक टी पिताहेत

*शेवटी अंतर तेव्हडच राहीलं,,,*

लहानपणी सायकल दामटायचो तेंव्हा लोक दुचाकी चारचाकी मधून फिरताना बघायचो , वाटायचं आपणही फिरावं , आता सकाळी सकाळी सर्वाना सायकलवरून व्यायाम करताना बघितले की वाटत 

*शेवटी अंतर तेव्हडच राहीलं,,,*

लहानपणी जेंव्हा चपाती मिळत नसल्यानं ज्वारी बाजरीची भाकरी खायचो तेंव्हा लोकं पोळी ,चपाती भात खाताना आपणही खावं असं वाटायचं,, 

आज तीच लोकं भाकरी खाण्यासाठी  हॉटेल मध्ये पैसे मोजून रांगा लावताना बघितलं की वाटत ,,, 

*शेवटी_अंतर_तेव्हढच_राहीलं* !!

लहानपणी झोपडीत राहायचो तेंव्हा बंगल्यात राहण्याऱ्याकडे बघून वाटायचं आपणही बंगल्यात राहावं ,, आज तीच बंगलेवाले मनशांती साठी दूर खेड्यात जंगलात जाऊन झोपडीत ( रिसॉर्ट ) मध्ये राहतात तेंव्हा वाटत ,,, *शेवटी अंतर तेव्हढंच राहीलं ,,,

*शेवटी_अंतर_तेव्हढच_राहीलं*

आता कळलं...,

हे अंतर असंच कायम राहणार, मग मनाशी पक्क केलं

 जसा आहे,

 तसाच रहाणार... कुणाचं पाहून बदलणार नाही,

*🌻🙏🏻🌻मित्रानो आहे तसेच राहा ,, जे तुमच्या कडे आहे तेच* *तुमच्यासाठी योग्य आहे ,,,,,*

🙏🙏

अजय सूर्यकांत मस्के पाटील

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यशाची ञिसूञी: जिद्द,चिकाटी आणि सातत्य

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             यशाची ञिसूञी:
      जिद्द,चिकाटी आणि सातत्य                 ======================= 
 *✍ अजय सूर्यकांत मस्के पाटील✍*

       🏆  :COSMOS: 🏆

          विद्यर्थी मिञांनो , नमस्कार
            कधी यश तर कधी अपयष...आपल्यापैकी बहुतेकांच्या आयुष्यात हा ऊन -पावसाचा खेळ सुरू असतो. पण काही जणांचं आयुष्य हे अपयशाच्या तप्त उन्हात होरपळून जातं . तरीही यशाच्या शिखरावर पोहोचण्यासाठी त्यांची जिद्द तसूभरही कमी होत नाही. अपयशाची एक एक पायरी निर्धाराने चढत ते जिद्द ,चिकाटी आणि सातत्याच्या जोरावर यशोशिखर गाठतातच.
         गरिबीवर मात करून यशोशिखर गाठणारांची संख्या या जगात काही कमी नाही. क्षमता नसतानाही केवळ ध्यास आणि चिवट प्रयत्नांच्या जोरावर , सतत येणार्या अपयशाकडे दुर्लक्ष करत केवळ मुंगीसारखा सतत पुढचा मार्ग शोधायचा ही गोष्ट सोपी नाही. मुंगी कडून शिकण्यासारखी एक गोष्ट आहे ती म्हणजे *' ट्राय ट्राय अँड अगेन ट्राय  '* थोड्याशा अपयशानं खचून जाणार्या तरुणांसाठी इवल्याशा मुंगीचं उदाहरण खूप बोलकं आहे .
        हरिवंशराय बच्चन आपल्या कवितेत म्हणतात - 🐜🐜
    नन्ही चींटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है,
    चढ़ती दीवारों पर, सौ बार फिसलती है|
    मन का विश्वास रगों में साहस भरता है,
  चढ़कर गिरना,गिरकर चढ़नाअखरता है |
 आखिर ऊसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती |
  कोशिश करनेवालों की कभी हार नहीं
  होती !
        मिञांनो, आव्हानं आपल्याला कमकुवत बनवण्यासाठी कधीत येत नसतात . ती तर तुमच्यामधील सुप्त शक्तीला जागृत करण्यासाठी येत असतात. आव्हानांचा सामना करत आपले जीवनध्येय गाठायचं ,की त्यांच्यासमोर गुडघे टेकून हार मानायची , हे शेवटी आपल्याच हाती आहे .
                         
                           आपला स्नेहांकित
                       *अजय मस्के पाटील*
                                  संचालक

        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnuM1sWYbWsHiYsufDtHINg

HOW TO OPEN OUR SENSE OF HUMOUR

How TO OPEN OUR SENSE OF HUMOUR ?

Everybody is born with it. It is not a talent, it is intrinsic to human nature. But the society tries to destroy it; it is afraid even of the sense of humor. We teach children to be serious. Seriousness is praised, highly praised. In fact, seriousness is a kind of disease; it should be condemned.

Every child brings a sense of humor in the world, but we destroy it, at least we repress it. We don't allow him to enjoy it; we don't allow him to share it with us. We don't encourage him to help it grow because we are afraid; if he becomes too non-serious then he will become dangerous to the serious society. Then he will start rebelling against many things, because a sense of humor is an essential part of intelligence.

You don't see donkeys laughing, you don't see buffaloes enjoying a joke. It is only man who can enjoy a joke, who can laugh. Your saints are like buffaloes and donkeys! They have fallen below humanity; they have lost something of immense value. Without laughter a man is like a tree without flowers.

But the society needs serious people: presidents, prime ministers, vice-chancellors, professors, popes, shankaracharyas, ayatollahs, imams, all kinds of priests, teachers, commissioners, Collectors, governors.... Everybody has to be serious. If they have a sense of humor the society is afraid efficiency will be lost. If they have a sense of humor they Will become human. They are expected to be just like machines.

The way Adolf Hitler walks is mechanical. Just see his pictures -- the way he stands, the way he walks, the way he takes the salute, the way HE salutes. It seems almost mechanical, as if he is not a man but a robot. His face, his gestures, all are robotlike, and he made the whole of Germany robotlike. He destroyed Germany more than he destroyed anybody else. But he created a very efficient army. The efficient army is possible only if people lose all intelligence and all that intelligence contains.

A sense of humor is one of the very essentials of intelligence. The moment you lose it you lose intelligence also; the more you have it, the more intelligent you are. There is no question of how to open the sense of humor; you simply remove the barriers. It is already there, it is already the case. You simply remove a few rocks which your parents, your society have put to prevent it. The society teaches you self-control, and sense of humor means relaxation.

~ Ajay Suryakant Maske Patil