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"Something I recently observed on social media:
Pointing out people's flaws here and there in a judgmental way.
People are allowed to criticize no questioning that. "it's a free world"And the others should aknowledge that, even when it is not constructive or helpful, and kindly express gratitude.
BUT, criticism especially when it is fueled by ego, blame, doing things according to the RIGHT WAY, or hate, is toxic.
and here I would like to point out the difference between CRITICISM and FEEDBACK.
*Criticism focuses on what's wrong while feedback focuses on how to improve.
* Criticism devalues. For example: guess you’re just not smart enough to do this. While feedback encourages. For example:I know you have a lot on your plate, but I’m pretty sure we can do this together.
I think advice or rather feedback in so many ways would be better. When it makes the person recognizes an unresolved issue, expand their perspective and personal growth and be a challenge for them to become better versions of themselves.
But throwing negative energy on a category of people will only cause hurt and zero change.
*What you put out there is what you get back*
We should try our best to encourage positive change, instead of undermining confidence. We should try to uplift each other instead of belittling each other.
We should be more considerate. We should be KIND."
Ajay Suryakant Maske Patil
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